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Enough has been said about what women want.
Not much mention of what they dont want.
Through my personal experience, the trial and error way, and also from my female friends, I've come up with a list of what women dont want. So, go through the list, see character fits you and do the total opposite, and you'll be on your way to be on the women's wanted list!
Alright, here are 5 types of men that women definitely dont want:
| No |
What women dont want |
Definition |
How to avoid being what women dont want |
5 |
Desperate men |
Desperate men are those that are seen as men who cannot seem to get any women no matter how hard they try and thus are desperate to get a women no matter what she looks like orhow she behaves. Any women will do with these kind of men. Women can smell a desperate men from the way he talks to them. He is overly eager to please the women. He is always with boys and has no female friends. At the first sight of beautiful women, a desperate man will be lost at word, make stupid gestures. Desperate men will gawk at women in front of another women. |
To avoid being a desperate man, you just have to play it cool. Dont be interested in just any women you see. You have taste and will only be moved by that one special person. Also, Never... put a woman on a pedestral. If you are with a women, even if another very pretty woman looks in your way, just look away and pretend you are not interested. The women you are with will fall head over heels for you! - Guaranteed! |
4 |
Indecisive men |
Women loves it when they are asked about their opinion on things like where to eat, what movies they like to watch, but when overdone, the men will be seen as indecisive. This is when women will feel iritated. |
Make decisions! Dont worry if it is a bad one. As long as you are the one to make it, and stick with it, your woman will respect you. If it turns out to be a really bad decision, well, just admit wrong and choose again. Women love have their opinions heard, they love it more when they do not need to think too much about what to eat. |
3 |
Anti-social |
Being anti-social is not really a very big factor for many women, but what I'm talking about are the extreme cases where they can be classed more like Losers. What I'm talking about are those people that do not have any class, do not have any manners and are plan rude to everyone they talk to. They shout at the mistakes of waiters, directs their friends to do their tasks, even asks the women to pay for dinner, talking loudly like a barbarian, and of course wear clothes that smell like dead fish. |
It is very hard to find people in the extreme, but they do exists! What you can do is to think of how James Bond would act in front of a girl. He pays for their drinks, he open doors for them, and he just makes his women feel special. Of course there is a fine line between being suave and being desperate. Dont overdo being suave and you'll be alright. |
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Play-boy |
Being a playboy is the extreme opposite of a desperate man. A playboy has soo many women that he even forgets who he'll be dating the next day. Women do find playboy attractive to some extend. They want to feel that they can tame a playboy, and if they suceed, they will be like a winner of all the girlfriends of the playboy. But majority of the girls will stay away from a playboy. |
Have female friends, but do not date everyone of them! Just have one special person in your life. Try to make the one person feel like a Princess. |
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Mommy's Boy |
Again, this has something to do with being indecisive. A mommy's boy will put his mother first. His mother will always be the one deciding on what he wears, what he should do, what he should say. If his mother and girlfriend are drowning, and he has only one life jacket to save one person, a mommy's boy will save his mother. |
Respecting your mother is always the correct thing to do. But do not let your mother run your life. Have some decision on your own. And in front of your woman, always pick her over your mum. But in front of both of them, well, just avoid the situation and you'll be alright. |
-The Self Help Freak.
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