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Love... 51 more things to do with a date


Okay, for all the love addicts out there, if the first list of 51 things to do with a date is not enough, don't worry, I've got more!

Here goes:-

No Things to do with your date Effectiveness
1 Have a midnight date. Meet in dressing gowns and pajamas for hot chocolate, or hot mil and biscuits. 7
2 Book into a 5 star hotel and relax and enjoy. Just once in your life, you and your loved one deserve to be pampered. 7
3 Have a night in with some board games. They could be classics like scrabble, monopoly, chess, etc. 6
4 Visit a book shop where they allow you to sit and read. 6
5 Meet each other for lunch on a work day. Not often done but a lovely way to get to know someone in a different 'mode' 5
6 Have bubble bath together. 8
7 Hire a boat, canoe and go row a boat. A classic! 7
8 Go see a fortune teller/tarot/card/palm reader. Loads of fun! 8
9 Meet at your local bed and sofa warehouse. See how long you can kiss before getting suspicious looks from the staff. Not really my style.. but it sure is trilling! 5
10 Take a stove out in the garden. Start fire with wood you find lying about and start to cook your meal in the 'wild' 6
11 Go play pool or snooker. 6
12 Go to market, but some grocery and cook dinner together! Also get some recipes before hand. You could try to bake a cake together. Or even make desert. 8
13 Watch sunset or sunrise together. For me, it is not as effective as what you see in the movies... I think I'm missing the background music. And too much mosquitoes! 5
14 Grow a plant together. Just remember to water everyday. 6
15 Buy a couple of coloring books and some coloring pencils. Treat yourself to some chocolate or ice cream and get coloring! 7
16 Go to the park and have a stroll around. Go and play on the swings. Finish with an ice cream. 6
17 Go bowling! Great fun with friends. Make fun bets on the game. Like who gets to massage who later. 7
18 This is a bit crazy, but at least you get t spend time with your loved one. Go on a bus, don't care where it goes to, just enjoy the company of your loved one, and enjoy the view. When it comes to an end, explore the new place! 7
19 Go to a karaoke bar and sing your heart out! 8
20 Try mini golf!  Great fun, and some skill involved. 6
21 Buy some bread, go to a park and feed the ducks! 6
22 Take your camera, go around the town and start to act like a tourist. Take photo of everything you see! You'll be amazed at the number of things you used to miss out on. 8
23 Take your camera, one of you pretend to be a model while the other a photographer, let your imagination run wild! 7
24 Go see something sporty. Like horse racing, local football match, etc. You could place a small bet with your date. 7
25 Blindfold your date, drive them to someplace new. 8
26 Play card games! Play strip poker! That's if they allow you to... 8
27 Go to the zoo. Visit a wildlife park. 6
28 Try go-karting. Great fun! 7
29 Pretend you don't know each other. Meet in a bar, cafe, even a shop. One of you try and chat the other up. Act naturally but play it seriously for full effect. 8
30 Take a night class together, like pottery, painting, dancing. 6
31 Paint each other's face. Buy some face paint and make each other up as clowns, animals or warriors. 7
32 Play a kite together. 6
33 Go to a video arcade centre. Play the games together. 6
34 Try archery! 7
35 Send flower to her out of the blue. Just say that I was thinking of you and decided to surprise you... 8
36 Go jungle tracking, mountain hiking. 7
37 Go take pottery lesson and do like the movie 'ghost'. Personally, I've never tried it... ??
38 Start a project together. Like a business venture, or  community work. 8
39 Send her 100 heart shaped cards with different love poems or messages on each one. 8
40 Do facial together! 7
41 Drink wine together until drunk. See what happens after that. 7
42 Buy a puzzle. Complete the puzzle together. Frame it and enjoy the fruits of your hard labor! 6
43 Start a photo album together. Remember to put a funny note at the bottom of each photo to remind you of the experience! 8
44 Turn off the light in your room, light up a few candles. Play some romantic music in the background. Have dinner together...  Candle lit dinner 8
45 Create a website together. Post your pictures on the site. Announce your love to the world! 6
46 Join your local treasure hunt race. There are always one around during the weekend. Look in the newspaper, internet, magazine. You'll get to learn to work together, and be like a team!  Just don't take it too seriously. Its just for fun. 7
47 Play with your senses. But some therapeutic essences, burn and enjoy the aroma therapy. 7
48 Hire a limo. Drive to her workplace, school. Surprise her and her colleagues, friends. Take her to a nice restaurant. 8
49 Buy  your date a present. They always love present no matter the occasion. 7
50 Prepare breakfast for your loved one. 7
51 Propose to her. 10

-The Self Help Freak.

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