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Love... 51 things to do with a date

Okay, for all the love maniacs out there, I've listed the things you can do with your date. Can also be used by you lazy ass out there who can't be bothered to sit down and think of some ideas to do with your date.

Here goes:-

No Things to do with your date Effectiveness
1 Learn a musical instrument like piano, learn her favorite song and play it to her. 9
2 Play board game together 5
3 Rent love movie and have home made popcorn 6
4 Go swimming 6
5 Make dinner together and enjoy the fruits of your labor if edible. If not, just eat out. But at least you had fun! 7
6 Massage. Learn to massage. Use therapeutic oil. Very sensual. 8
7 Dance. Take up dancing class. 7
8 Take bath together in bubble bath 8
9 Leave a trail of rose petals towards a room filled with just candles and slow music... the rest, I leave it up to your imagination... 9
10 Go get your picture drawn together by a street artist 7
11 Have a stroll on the beach 8
12 Relax by the beach 8
13 Send him/her flowers at work/home anywhere where she can't see you. 8
14 Leave a rose on the porch of her house, on her car anywhere where she will see it first thing in the morning 9
15 Explore museum, buildings, new neighborhoods, etc 6
16 Go watch a movie... I know, everyone knows this... but it is something that you can do with your date.... 5
17 Find new restaurants that you can both dine in. Make it a thing to dine in a new restaurant every weekend 7
18 Draw a portrait of her/him...if you can... 9
19 Compose a song about her! 10
20 Tell her that laughter will make her live longer, live happier and enjoy life. Then offer to tell her a joke everyday. She'll crave for your jokes everyday! 9
21 Walk! Jungle track, bush walk, take along your mp3 player and just enjoy the fresh air 7
22 Drive to the top of a hill and just gaze at the moon and stars!  Seen it done a lot of time in the movies, but I've never done it before... don't have a convertible where the top of the car can be taken out... :( ??
23 When he/she is away, and out of reach... pre-write letters to each other. ie, write a 7 letters now, and exchange letters before he/she leaves. Only open up the letter; one per day, when he/she is away 7
24 Write poem for her/him 7
25 Read aloud a story for her when she can't sleep 6
26 Kiss her/him passionately. Kiss in cinema, kiss in the park, Kiss on the beach, Kiss her whenever, wherever. Don't kiss her in front of her parent... she will feel uncomfortable, you will feel pain after her father kicks you in the groin... lol ! Just Kidding... 8
27 Go to concert, go to theatres. 6
28 Go ice skating 6
29 Go bungee jumping! 6
30 Go-Kart! with a group of friends. 6
31 Go shopping together 8-if your date's a girl. 4-if your date's a boy
32 Go to Fun Parks. Water Park, Theme park etc 6
33 Travel around the world! 7
34 Take a drive out of town. Rent the place and stay there overnight. 8
35 Draw picture of each other. Say to her/him this will make each other see what the other person really as. This is a lot of fun... I always end up looking like a pig. :P 8
36 Ride a boat together. 6
37 Ride bicycles and just see the world 7
38 Go to a beach, Try to build a sand castle together. 8
39 Go on outings with friends or join community clubs and participate in their outings. eg camping. 8
40 Sit down together and think of 25 things to do together. Then post it here! :) ?
41 Buy a cake and celebrate today. Make up any excuse. She/He'll love it no matter what. example: "Surprise! Happy Beautiful Day! The special day for all the beautiful girlfriend/wife."  :) 9
42 This is a classic. Bury things together. Make it your special spot, such what when you grow old, you can go back there and dig it up again.... don't know the point of this, but its fun! :) 7
43 Play the mind game. Ask each other trivial questions, IQ questions, see who turns out the smartest.  ps, always pretend to be dummy at this one, if you want it to be effective. 8 -if you lose, 3 if you win.
44 Watch porn together... works only when you're very close. Be warned, some of my female friends was very turned off about the idea that their boyfriends want to watch porn with them... they feel jealous. 7 for some, 1 for others
45 Do yoga together. Relaxes. Enriches 6
46 Record a love message on a tape with love music in the background. I received this kind of tape by mistake as a kid about 10 years old, wrongly posted.  My brother and I had a great time making fun of the idiot on the tape. I never got about to trying it out, but you never know, the more mushy the things you do, the more effective! ?
47 Learn to use 'Macromedia's Flash'. Do some creative animation with pictures, and 'I love you' all over. With her/his favorite song playing in the background. Send it to her/his email. 7
48 This is a great idea!  I've not used it yet, no mirror in my bathroom... But with your finger, write "I LOVE YOU" on the mirror in your bathroom.  When she takes bath the bathroom will be all steamy and the message will appear!   ?
49 Make something together and sell.  For example, my wife (girlfriend during then) and I cut up fruits and sold 5 the Sunday Market!  :)  We did not become millionaires, but the process of it was unforgettable! :)  7
50 Do charity together!  Makes both of you feel good about yourself. Donate blood together. 7
51 Okay, this I saved for the last thing to do on a date. I feel this is a killer! Takes effort to do though.  Okay, plan to go to a beach. Before you embark with your loved one, drive down  there yourself first, do not let her know that you've been there.  Put a "I LOVE <your loved one name here>"  When she gets there and sees it... her heart will melt on the spot!  10

Remember, most of the things above, I thought out of the simple theory of :-

  1. element of surprise

  2. effort involve - the more the better

  3. let your inner child take over, and draw your partner's inner child out to play too!

Happy loving!

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-The Self Help Freak.

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